Extremely happy

I am extremely happy with this website and just a few days ago managed to overcome after 5.5 years. Thank you very much.

The Best Information

I am really grateful that you created this website. Your website provides the best information about this condition. I finally found out last year that I have vaginismus. I did not know what was wrong with me and when I finally decided to go see a doctor, the first one absolutely had no idea. The second one diagnosed me with this condition. Unfortunately, soon after I lost my job and stopped treatment. I tried to start again but felt like I had to start all over again. I decided to do more research and came across your site. You have explained the condition in the best possible way and I understand what I am going through. I really hope that I can get past my fear and hope your book will help me through it. Thank you.

Fabulous Site

Congratulations on such a fabulous site and thank you for sharing this problem with people so sufferers do not feel so alone.

Constructive Criticism

I am writing to thank you for your excellent kit and also offer a constructive criticism of the website.

I overcame vaginismus in about 6 weeks using your kit, and am very thankful for this. I also found the forum extremely helpful, and still use it from time to time.

I have recommended your website to my GP and today to a top fertility consultant, who was very interested to hear of it and the success I have had with it.

I knew about your website for a long time before ordering the kit. The reason I didn’t order it earlier is that the website gives the impression of a glossy advertising website which is selling something. I assumed that if you are putting that much effort into selling it with all the photos of models then it must be a product that doesn’t work.

There is no need for all these pictures of perfect people, as if you are trying to promote a product. You are offering a very effective solution to a problem. No one would buy the kit unless they needed it, but it a shame to put people off buying it because it looks so over-promoted and advertised that it must be a gimmick.

I am British so perhaps the website does not give that impression to Americans, but from reading the forums I know I am not the only one who knew about the website for a long time before ordering from it.

The new testimonies and information on what the treatment involves go a long way towards giving the impression that this is actually a kit for real people with a real problem rather than a gimmick for supermodels, but I still think there is no need for all the glossy photos.

Once I got into the forums and saw that here were real people struggling as I was I had a completely different view of the website than I got from the glossy photos and advertising speak of the main pages.

Thanks again for a very valuable kit. I hope the front pages of the website don’t put anyone else off buying it who needs it.

There is so much information available

Thank you so much for the response. I am feeling much better about the situation. I was starting to think something was wrong with me because I have a couple of friends that are also virgins and didn’t experience the type of pain that I did. I’ve been looking over the site, and I am relieved to know that there’s so much information available. I can’t thank you all enough for the work you all do with the site, it means a lot!

Changed my life

Your website and materials have given me hope and helped me change my life. Thank you so much.

Blessing to find

Thank you so much for such a wonderful website. It really was a blessing to find. I am so happy that I am not the only one with this issue.

Most informative

I was referred to this site by pelvic floor physical therapists for some internal vaginal muscle triggers after hysterectomy. I wanted to contact you and tell you that your information on your symptoms and causes tabs is the most informative I’ve been able to find about the pain cycle.

Much relief

Thank you for your reply which has helped a lot. I also phoned one of the therapists who gave you feedback on the website who has confirmed what you have said. We have been told in the past by a relationship counsellor that they had never heard of this issue before (this was before we knew of the word ‘vaginismus’) and I’m sure you can imagine the relief many years later when we stumbled a few weeks ago onto your website. Having this situation normalised is already starting to reduce the fear of it not ever getting better.

Thrilled there is hope

I have not yet ordered the kit, but am so excited to do so. After 11 years of a happy but unconsummated marriage, I am thrilled that there is hope. When we were first married, the doctors who examined me had little to no knowledge on vaginismus. I actually had an operation a few months into our marriage that broke the hymen and was supposed to enlarge the area. Yet, still no penetration. I was then told that I was physically perfectly fine and that it was something in my head that I would have to overcome. Looking forward to my husband coming home tonight so we can order this together. Thank you for the site….I am optimistic that you will soon receive a testimonial from me.

Happiest woman alive

I would like to thank you for saving my marriage. Me and my husband have been trying to have sex for years and we would end up more and more frustrated every single time we would try. After a while we got sick of trying and trying because we would get no where!! We ended up to stop trying. We would just avoid that subject because we wouldn’t want to go through the disappointment again. I would cry and cry by myself cause I thought there was something wrong with me. I was scared my husband would cheat on me or leave me. I was devastated because he is the love of my life, he is my high school sweetheart. One day my husband comes home with a whole bunch of photo copies of your site on the internet. I started reading about vaginismus and stories of peoples lives that was my life. I was reading my life over and over again!!! I couldn’t stop crying of joy that I wasn’t the only one. That there was nothing wrong with me!!! I ordered the kit and I did exactly what it told me to do. 2 months later I was having sex with my husband and we were the happiest couple ever!!!! Thank you so much because right now I am 3 months pregnant with twins and I am the happiest woman alive cause this is what I have been waiting for my whole life, to become a mother. My dream has finally come true and we couldn’t do it without the help of the vaginismus site and the vaginismus kit!!!!!!! Thank you again and again!!!!

Wonderful dedicated site

I just wanted to say thank you so much for this website. I struggled with vaginismus for 5 years and due to your spacers I was finally able to overcome. What a wonderful site dedicated to this very real and poorly understood problem! I am so glad I found your site.

Many thanks!

First of all – THANK YOU. I’m gonna order a kit later today, and I’ve found your entire website so comforting to use – it has just about ALL the information I wanted to know when I realized I had vaginismus. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!!

Help and kindness

Oh my goodness, thank you so much. I was just diagnosed with this condition a few days ago, so I am new to the entire aspect. I appreciate all of the support that I have gotten from this website so far, and look forward to being a part of the community. The help and kindness I have gotten from the respondents of my message, and the overall quality of the website has been a great network of support and security. Thank you again.

Thank God for your website

Omg, omg, omg, thank you, thank you, thank you. I am 21 years old and have been married for one year and two months and have never had penetration . . . Neither was i able to use a tampon on anything. Just last week my husband and I were talking about separating because he got fustrated and is in the military and away right now so he is extra fustrated and all and just last night I decided to give researching one last try. I was told I have genophobia (fear of sex), I was told I just need to relax, to give it time, maybe I’m not ready – practically every excuse in the book. Thank God for your website. My husband is due home in 22 days and I am hoping I can give him a surprise and I will be ready. At one point I stopped believing in God because I kept telling myself kids at age 13 and 14 are having sex and they don’t even care and I wanna do it – married and extremely in love and unable to do it. I started saying He didn’t care and He didn’t exist and just last week I said I’m gonna try believing again and start going to church and viola I came across your site. You are a life saver. I had an appointment for tomorrow to see a gyno to get my vagina stretched while I’m asleep and I’ve learned from reading your site that it won’t help because when I’m awake I might still be afraid of penetration even though i was stretched. I also just ordered the complete kit and I will definately keep you posted on what happens and my progress. Thank you guys so much. God bless and hopefully I get my package by Wednesday.

Blessing and love

Very helpful

Your site and mission are very helpful, they truly educate and shed light upon this condition.

Refer patients every week

You have a truly wonderful website and service to which I refer patients every week.

Elizabeth Kemper, MPT, BCIA-PMDB
Sovereign Rehabilitation
Decatur, GA

Info from website was helpful

The most important thing for me is that I got rid of the disease which had been caused rather with stress and fear, and lack of information then with physiology. In this case, the information from the website, the stories of women, and the hope to be cured were the best therapy. I am really thankful also for your time and efforts.


Many thanks for your quick response. I found the piece on the website both encouraging and helpful regarding treatment for vaginismus when you are single. A lot of the fears I have about meeting someone new, are echoed in the text. It is a relief to find that others feel the same way and there is hope, as it can be quite isolating !!

Excited for the life change

Thanks so much for your quick response. What a blessing. I am very excited to begin this journey more whole heartedly!!  I appreciate that you have a website such as this. I’m excited for the life change to come.  🙂

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